Symbiosexuality Is A Recent Development That Has Prompted Experts To ‘Rethink Human Attraction’

A recent study has taken a closer look at polyamory and the people involved in such relationships.

Polyamory and ‘throuples’ have been getting more attention lately, especially after Zendaya’s latest film, Challengers, hit the screens.

In this movie, Zendaya’s character is at the center of a very intense love triangle involving two men.

Josh O’Connor and Mike Faist’s characters are primarily attracted to Zendaya, who is the key to their dynamic.

However, beyond the movie, there’s a new concept emerging in the world of relationships. This is called symbiosexuality.

It refers to the attraction one might feel towards an established couple, rather than being drawn to them as separate individuals.

Symbiosexuality is described as the ‘attraction to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between people in relationships.’

Sally W. Johnston, an adjunct professor of anthropology and sociology at Seattle University, recently carried out a study on this topic.

Challengers sees Zendaya in a love triangleAmazon MGM Studios

Her research revealed that many participants felt a sexual and romantic pull towards the ‘third force’ or ‘synergy’ present between the members of an existing couple, according to MailOnline.

Johnston suggests that we should ‘rethink the nature of human attraction and desire as only one-to-one experiences.’

Her findings, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, were based on secondary data from The Pleasure Study conducted in 2023.

This survey, which included 373 participants, explored various aspects of sexual and gender identity.

The study’s results explain: “Findings from this study support the hypothesis that people experience symbiosexual attraction, which they describe as an attraction to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between people in relationships.”

It also notes: “Further, findings from this study indicate that a diverse group of people experience symbiosexual attraction and, while unanticipated, symbiosexual attraction can be a strong, frequent, and/or pervasive experience.”

The new phenomenon is where someone is attracted to an already established coupleAnnapurna Pictures

Johnston first came across symbiosexuality while researching how ‘unicorns’ are treated within polyamorous communities.

According to Very Well Mind, a unicorn is ‘a person who is willing to join an existing couple.’

The term also means: “The sexual meaning of a unicorn is someone who engages in sexual activity with a couple but does not participate in other aspects of the relationship.”

Despite the potential sexual advantages of being a ‘unicorn,’ Johnston found that these individuals are often poorly treated.

They can face objectification and exclusion, a finding supported by her recent study.

Johnston shared with PsyPost: “Sexual and romantic relationships between single people and couples (potentially motivated by symbiosexual attraction) receive a lot of negative attention in polyamorous communities.

“I wanted to learn more about this understudied attraction.”

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